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What happened that led up to the divorce?

On the surface, it was the betrayal.

What emotions did you experience at the start?

Anger, hurt, devastation, shock

What support systems or resources were most helpful to you during this time?

Counselling Therapy, Meetup Interest Groups.

What are the key lessons you learned from your marriage, the divorce journey, and the healing process?

Our inner child trauma shaped our past communication habits. Awareness of this helps in my healing.

What do you think you could have done better for yourself during this time?

Self-awareness and pausing to reflect on how to respond, instead of reacting.

What would you say to your ex-partner if you met them now?

Our inner childs met and fell in love. Sadly, we didn’t manage to let our adult selves meet before parting ways. Maybe one day, we will. Or not.

If you could give one piece of advice to someone going through a divorce, what would it be?

Find a support group system. Or more. It can help give perspectives.

How has this experience changed how you see love and relationships?

Definitely, for sure.